Random Thoughts From Last Week

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Loving yourself doesn’t mean giving into your every desire. Somewhere along the way I feel many have decided that’s the case. Love = never disappointing and never saying no. That's not true though. Indulgence without sacrifice is not self love.

Nikon Z6, ISO 100, 25mm, f/16, 1/6 sec [McKinney Falls State Park, Austin, Texas]

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Why do so many parents just take the easy way out when it comes to their kids? I’m guilty in some instances, but hopefully not where it counts. See below… and maybe also above.

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Effort up front saves you time and heartache in the end. Trust me. Why are we so hesitant to give it?

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I haven’t had a pimple in over 6 months because I use a cleansing brush twice a week. I just feel like everyone should know that and get one to help clear out your pores and keep your face nice and smooth. I use this one from Amazon.

That’s an affiliate link and I may earn a tiny commission, but your price doesn’t change.

Facial Cleansing Brush by Olay Regenerist, Face Exfoliator with 2 Brush Heads Buy on Amazon

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“I ate that growing up and I turned out fine.” - Literally everyone with a chronic health problem

…But did you though?

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Soooooo is there a certain age women become bird watchers? Because I feel like it’s 38.

….It’s definitely 38.

Nikon Z6, ISO 1000, 24mm, f/2.8, 1/640 sec [Airport Park, Waco, Texas}]

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What possessed me to buy completely white shoes? That was dumb. I blame Instagram.

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Why even say anything at all if the message in a nutshell is…

“The plan was always to eliminate your position, but know that people are fighting for your position.”

Just stop talking because you’re just making yourself look like an ass. I’d rather be takin pictures.

Nikon Z6, ISO 1000, Lensbaby Edge 35, 1/4000 sec [Austin, Texas]

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An Unposed Session at Padre Island National Seashore

It’s been a quiet year in terms of photography for me.

Probably none of this seems immediately related to these photos so sorry about that.

I’ve been over here playing around with different ideas (not photography related), trying to figure out what my path is. I still don’t know what that path is, if I’m being honest and I’m still over here dabbling in it all.

I didn’t want to put pressure on this thing that I loved. I was afraid it would turn into something I didn’t want, if I kept doing that this year and that thought terrified me. I already saw my spark fading as I got caught up in the drama and BS related to social media and I retreated hard and fast and with that I backed off from everything photography related including photographing my own kids. I’m hoping all of that was necessary and is fulfilling some purpose for my furture self.

Social media is hard. It’s funny because I probably fall into the same category I always have in everything in life. Not quite cool enough for the mainstream kids, but not outcast enough for the outcasts. I’m just stuck somewhere in the middle without belonging anywhere. This is probably a little bit my fault because it’s no secret to myself that I don’t commit enough to people to really belong in a community. I hold myself back for fear of judgement. It’s rare anyone actually gets to see me all the way, which is why Tyler is probably pretty much the only person who sees it all.

What if I’m not who they thought I was? What if I disappoint them? It’s less stress (or so it sometimes seems) to just do it all on my own. This thinking is wrong, right? Is it imposter syndrome that makes me feel this way maybe? Why do I even care what “they” think to begin with? I know better, but I’m still here in this place.

I don’t really know what the purpose of all of this is other than it just feels good to talk about it. Maybe others feel the same and now they know they’re not alone. Maybe it just makes me make more sense to people. I don’t know.

I know this session is the first time I picked up my camera to do this kind of thing in a long time. I had a vision and I was nervous it was going to just bomb and I’d come away with nothing. The first probably 30 minutes felt like that actually. I had to let go in a lot of ways. Once I just decided to let my kids be free and occasionally prompt them into things that would bring joy, it got good. I let Saida get in the waves fully clothed because it felt like freedom and we needed that. Mostly this is just them and me there to see it for what it was and document it the way I knew I could.